Step-by-Step Guide: Ritual to Attract a Twin Flame, Soulmate, Love Interest, Ex, or New Love

spell candles and love crystals

How Do You Set the Right Intention?

Start by clearly defining your goal—whether it’s attracting a twin flame, soulmate, love interest, ex, or new love. Write your intention in a positive way, as if it has already happened, such as, “I am in a loving, fulfilling relationship with my soulmate.”

What Items Do You Need for the Ritual?

Gather a pink or red spell candle (symbolizing love and passion), powerful crystals like Rose Quartz for unconditional love, Moldavite for transformation, or Amethyst for emotional clarity. Include a small bowl of water and a personal token tied to your desire.

How Do You Prepare Your Space?

Cleanse the area with sage, palo santo, or incense to clear away negative energy. Set a calm, inviting atmosphere with dim lighting and soothing music. Arrange your items intentionally, creating a sacred space for the ritual.

How Do You Activate the Crystals?

Hold your chosen crystal and infuse it with your intention, repeating it silently or aloud. For example, use Moldavite and Rose Quartz for a twin flame or soulmate, or Amethyst and Rose Quartz for healing with an ex or attracting new love.

How Do You Use the Spell Candle?

Light the candle and focus on its flame, imagining your desire manifesting. See yourself in the relationship you seek—feeling the joy, love, and harmony as if it is already yours.

What Positive Affirmations Should You Use?

Speak affirmations aloud or write them down, ensuring they are positive and phrased as if they’ve already happened. For example:

  • “I am surrounded by deep, unconditional love.”
  • “I am joyfully united with my twin flame.”
  • “My soulmate and I share a fulfilling, loving bond.”

How Can You Amplify the Ritual’s Energy?

Drop your chosen crystal into a bowl of water, symbolizing emotional flow. Use the infused water to anoint your wrists or the candle, representing love and the power of your intention.

How Long Should the Ritual Last?

Spend 10-15 minutes meditating on your desire. Visualize your ideal relationship with clarity and emotion, feeling gratitude as if it has already happened.

What Should You Do When the Ritual Ends?

Allow the candle to burn out safely or extinguish it with gratitude, thanking the universe for its support. Keep the crystal with you or in a special place as a reminder of your intention.

How Do You Sustain the Energy of the Ritual?

Continue practicing gratitude daily, affirming your desires and trusting in the universe’s timing. Stay positive and open to opportunities that lead you to your twin flame, soulmate, or the love you seek.